Our Vision

PFLAG envisions a world where diversity is celebrated and all people are respected, valued, and affirmed inclusive of their sexual orientation, gender identity, and gender expression.

Our Mission

At PFLAG Rehoboth Beach, our mission is to build on the strength of loving families united with LGBTQ+ individuals and allies. Together, we support one another, educate ourselves and our community, and advocate for a world where every heart and mind respects, values, and affirms LGBTQ+ people.

We meet people where they are—offering a safe, welcoming space for those with questions, those seeking connection, and those ready to share their stories. The power of one parent, family member, or friend offering love and acceptance to another cannot be overstated.

  • Accountability: We hold ourselves and each other responsible in our work. We communicate transparently, respond timely, set clear boundaries, and take ownership of our actions.

  • Bravery: We are courageous in word and deed. We advocate boldly, remain steadfast in the face of adversity, make space for vulnerability, and meet people where they are to have the challenging conversations.

  • Community & Collaboration: We lead with love. We center our community, listen with respect and compassion, and derive strength from the collective power of our unified organization.

  • Inclusivity & Belonging: We ensure PFLAG is a place where everyone belongs. We listen actively, engage with cultural humility, and ensure that the power of diverse people, cultures, and stories are respected and woven through all areas of our work.

  • Growth: We evolve to ensure PFLAG is strong and current. We approach our work with curiosity, broaden our skills, learn from our mistakes as well as our successes, and adapt to meet the needs of an ever-changing world.

On Finding out Your Child or Someone Else You Love is LGBTQ+ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Questioning, Etc.)

  • You are not alone – the fact is one in every four families has an LGBTQ+ member.

  • Give Yourself Time - This is new information to you, and you need time to collect your thoughts, to educate yourself, and to understand what you have just found out. PFLAG - Rehoboth Beach is here to help with that understanding.

  • You have a right to your feelings. 

  • Remember that your child (or someone else you love) is the same person that they were the day before coming out.

  • Your child’s (or someone else you love’s) coming out is a compliment to you – they trust you and love you.

  • PFLAG - Rehoboth Beach can help you by giving you a place to share your story.  Other parents and friends can lend support. We've been there and we want to help you.

  • Love your child (or someone else you love) just the way they are.  Don’t try to change them.  Don’t be part of the 26 percent who put them out on the street.

  • You did not cause this nor did your child (or someone else you love) choose their orientation.

  • Begin to educate yourself.  PFLAG - Rehoboth Beach can help you.  The more you learn – the better you will feel.

  • Give yourself time to heal and learn.

  • Coming out is a freeing experience for your child (or someone else you love). They can still have a good normal life with a loving partner.

  • Your coming out gradually can also be a freeing experience for you.

  • In time, you may even become an activist.